I was inspired by this movie "He's just not into you"
It made me think a lot about love and dating in these modern days. The movie genuinely shows how love and relationship nowadays are filled with intrigues, affairs and insecurities, how women are struggling to understand men's signals after a date and also how our ability to have direct communication with others, even a potential soulmate, is deteriorating rapidly. More people prefer getting to know others through social networking portal like Facebook compare to direct face-to-face communication. People ask you out through emails, messages left on your Walls or msn. No verbal communication. Not even a phone call. This is one of the downsides of technology. Folks, I highly recommend watching this movie with your significant other because the story really hits home. It'll make you think about your loved one, appreciate their companion and understand the typical challenges you'll face in a relationship. Don't forget to also check out "The top 10 chick flick clichés not found in the movie" in the official website. It's hilarious!! So gay...hahaha...
Anyway, I have my own version of "how to know that someone is just not that into you". These are the top five signs that I observed *I'll use 'he' 'coz I'm a she:P, if you're a guy and you're reading this, just change each 'he' to 'she', ok? 'coz I think the signs are the same, regardless of gender.
1) When you try to chat with him online, they will respond with short answers and don't even bother to ask you another question. No conversation. He just ignore you and pretend to be busy the whole time. He's just not that into you.
2) When you ask him out for lunch or dinner in normal days and have fun together (only the two of you, not a group gathering or anything like that), he'll make excuses not to come and the next day, he's nowhere to be seen, even in the virtual world. He's just not that into you.
3) When he starts talking to you about love and relationship like you're his buddy or a long-lost sister, beware! He might be interested in you merely as his source of information, to get a girl's perspective. He's pursuing other girl. He's just not that into you.
4) When he can't remember anything that you say and doesn't seem to care about what you think or do (even though you spent lots of time chatting with him and exchanged lots of infos). That means he either has a short-term memory loss or he doesn't give a damn about you. He's just not that into you.
5) When you've had great conversations (online and offline), he seems to understand you the most, you've even gone out together several times and you think everything went so well. However, if there's no follow-up phone call or next date initiated by him afterwards, you shouldn't assume anything! Try reading more signals before you declare anything and make sure you protect yourself from falling head over heels. 'Coz if you're wrong, it'll break your heart and you'll need a long time to collect those broken pieces. So girls, don't fall too hard, ok? He's just not that into you.
In your opinion, what are the other signs?
Have you watched "he's just not that into you"?
Wif luv,
-Sien-
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