Five signs to know if u have REALLY found the "ONE"

You can also find this article here (recalling my last year's article @friendster blog)

This time, i'll share a different topic, not about goals and dreams again, but about my personal theory on a RELATIONSHIP matter

Here we gooo…

Five signs to know if u have REALLY found the "ONE".

The one and only Mr or Ms RIGHT.

Opening Disclaimer: in my case, the ONE = HIM, if u're a guy and reading this...then just change all the HIMs into HERs, k?? :P

1. YOU CAN BE YOURSELF

~ u don't need and don't have to pretend being someone else u're not. 'Coz if e relationship goes all e way, eventually..u'll have to show ur true color anyway, so why depressing urself by hiding the real u from him? just show him who u really are from e very beginning, then u'll save urself from e most horrible pain in e future: resentment.

2. YOU'LL FEEL THAT YOU CAN SHOW YOUR WEAKNESSES IN FRONT OF HIM

~ u allow urself to be weak in front of him, not as strong as u appear to be in front of others, u're not ashamed of crying or showing ur silly expressions in front of him, u just feel FREE...(like he's ur best mate ever).

3. YOU CAN FREELY SHARE YOUR DREAMS AND GOALS WITH HIM (W/O FEELING JUDGED)

~ how wonderful the relationship is, if both partners can share their dreams, support each other, and walk towards a brighter future together, hand in hand...{*huff, i'm speechless now...}

4. YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ALMOST ANYTHING W/ HIM

~ when u're together, u know that u can talk about aaaanything, any topics, even the silliest and most unimportant stuff...u'll just enjoy having conversations w/ him. You both understand each other's mind and heart...

5. YOU'LL FEEL VERY COMFORTABLE BEING W/HIM, FEEL PROTECTED AND WARM INSIDE

~ you can do lotsa things together, enjoy each other's company and HAVE FUN!!
The last important thing--> as time goes by, u can clearly picture urself building a strong and happy family wif him/her. Then just be certain that he's the right one (or she) and u can face any obstacles along e way, together... {oouw sooo sweeeeet....*_*}


Closing Disclaimer: Well, this one is extremely important!!!! In the end, though u have experienced these 5 signs strongly, u'll still need to make sure that it's not ONE-SIDED, he must have the same feelings as u do, OTHERWISE...just give it up GIRL!! Let it go!! Coz' if u continue thinking about a person who doesn't even have e slightest interest on u and he doesn't show any of the 5 signs i've mentioned above...u should be preparing to say BYE BYE!! any time u have that can't-take-it-anymore kind of feeling. Sure you don't wanna terribly hurt urself, do you?? Life goes on anyway, there're thousands of other people out there, who might just be the ONE for u, if u dare to dream and feel once again!

SO you may give up on him...BUT u should never give up on LOVE and the "ONE"...^_^

NB: Go back and think, "What's the purpose of having a relationship if it's not going ANYWHERE?


Cheers,



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